The Shoemaker's Wife by Adriana Trigiani

Ciro and Enza's love story, from the mountains of Northern Italy, to the streets of Manhattan--and then to the cold winters of Minnesota. A satisfying story of life, love and loss. Enjoyed the descriptions of the Metropolitan Opera in NYC as well as the early convent life where Ciro was raised by loving nuns. A bereft and lonely young boy who works hard to make his way after being "knocked down" - it's the kind of hard luck story that resonates with me. One of my favorite chapters was when Ciro returns to sweep Enza off her feet and away from her wedding ceremony -- and she sacrificially gives up her dream position in NYC to make a life with this man that she has had on her heart since she was a teenager. How many kids in today's culture would follow their man, and give up their passion? Only one who was secure enough in themselves to realize that the accolades of men and position mean nothing -- joy in life comes from listening to the still voice within.

Choosing to SEE by Mary Beth Chapman

A great autobiographical message of hope from the wife of one of the best loved Christian contemporary artists, Steven Curtis Chapman. Married young, they faced a variety of issues in their first years: financial, unexpected pregnancy, some in-law difficulties. Mary Beth realized early on that she was totally different from her husband--the laughing, friendly and creative entertainer. She, quiet and analytic with a plan for everything in her life --but it mostly never worked out the way she planned! Three biological kids, then 3 more adopted Chinese daughters later, they faced the hugest tragedy of their lives--the accidental death of their youngest, who had just turned five. Mary Beth outlines the chronic depression she faced throughout their marriage, then the deep grief. Her journal entries were raw with emotion and feeling, but she and her family clung to their hope in Christ and His goodness. A story of redemption and the hard journey that accompanies those who are sold out to God.

StrengthsFinder by Tom Rath

My quarterly book review for MEC, this was a short read describing over 25 strengths that are found in different combinations in all people. For more in-depth, I took the online test which was an eye opener as to my top 5 strengths. I found that I lead with connectiveness, meaning that I want those around me to mesh, to interact, to "connect". This explains why I make the effort to ask engaging questions that connect one another --via dinner conversations, Bible study, MEC meetings, Sunday School class. My others were communication (enjoy leading and no fear in being in front of people), responsibility (approval need, thus do all the detail; feel the deep need to care for family matters), developer (as Pastor's wife, as Bible study leader who wants to see changes; as mom who wants to see growth;). I didn't agree with Context, as it made it seem that I love and study history; I read historical novels and like to understand people's history so that I can understand them better. After reading the other choices, I would guess that I also might be an Arranger, loving to plan events, outings and meetings. This study made me realize that I am not just a combination of 4 different temperaments, as I have studied before-but in fact as God says, "I am fearfully and wonderfully made" and am made up of a unique combination of many traits. That makes me realize that not many other people are exactly like me, because I was created with different aspects of these strengths. Someone who is similar may have other aspects of the strengths. Brings a smile to my face--that God really made us "one of a kind"!!

Miracle in the City of Angels by Elle Conner

Descriptive journal from a mom who prayed and dreamed of a daughter, after birthing 2 sons. Their adoption journey reminded me so much of our daughter and son-in-law's three year marathon of international adoption. This couple traveled to Russia to pick up their little girl and endured the same legalities, delayed court dates, and testifying before a frightening judge -- and feeling numb and sad as they observed so many babies in an orphanage that did not have enough caregivers. A good read that gave me a better understanding of what is ahead for the Tegelaars.

Body Surfing by Anita Shreve

It took a while to get used to the author's style, but the story moved along quickly; and I am glad I read this as it introduced me to the author, who also wrote Aviator's Wife, one on my book list. Sydney lands a summer job as a tutor, while regrouping from the loss of her husband. Shreve writes descriptively of the various family members, and the dysfunctions that lie beneath the surface. I did not love how all the sub-plots played out, but came to enjoy the style. It gave cause to reflect on our initial perceptions of people and situations; and how they sometimes are entirely wrong.

Defending Jacob by William Landay

Our book club reading for March -- Bill also read this with me, so had a good discussion with him. The internal conflicts of a family with a 14 year old son convicted of murder. Delves into the background of the father who a history of pathological males in his family. His own father in jail, he never brought himself to tell his wife of this family "heritage". When the attorney father has to face this charge, all of the history pours back in. Denying that it could be an inherited anger/sociopathic "tendency" -- because he has never had that inclination to kill or to be aloof to others' suffering, the father desperately believes in his son; however the mother questions because she has been aware of the psychological leanings (acting out/ aggression) of her son since he has been small. A complicated book as you doubt the boy, but hope for the best. Because another suspect steps up out of the blue to admit his guilt (coerced by a gangster thug who is friends with the jailed grandfather) -- the charges are dropped. The family starts to get their lives back in order, but another incident sets off alarms in the mother and she chooses the ultimate sacrifice. Ending was hard to read. As I get older, I realize that I love happy endings; in movies and books. The optimist in me believes that the "goodness" in people and in God's ability to "turn our failures into good" -- should win out. Reality is that it does not always work that way.

The Last Lecture by Randy Pausch

Randy Pausch was a gifted educator -- raised by parents who assisted him in believing that dreams are possible, he proceeds through life, continually checking off those dreams as they are attained. At 39,he marries and has 3 kids, while teaching computer science at Carnegie Mellon. He appears to have loved this position, and the opportunities it afforded him to "help" students achieve their dreams and believe in themselves. Diagnosed with stage 4 pancreatic cancer in 2007, he faces the next months with courage and wit -attacking the disease with all that he has. This memoir was poignant because of Amy and Arlene, and my friend Lynne who battled the same disease for less than a year. Randy wrote this book in conjunction with his "Last Lecture" at Carnegie Mellon, saying good-bye to over 400 people crowded into the small auditorium. He emphasized then that he did it to leave a legacy with his small kids of who he was and that he loved life; he wanted them to know him, but he also wanted to make sure they knew that he loved them. Many themes come through, but the most consistent is his encouragement to stay positive and enjoy the time that is given. He doesn't mention faith or heaven, and it makes me wonder that such a courageous, loving, and positive man could remain so in his situation without faith. The Last Lecture was given in April 2008. Randy Pausch died in August 2008.

Firstlights by Sue Monk Kidd

Short devotional thoughts, compiled from early writings in Guidepost, the author struck a chord in me. As I have been studying rest and contemplation, my desire to listen in silence has increased over the past year. Sue Monk's experiences validate what God has been teaching me on my journey. I didn't always agree with her theology, but her musings and illustrations were good and have caused me to think about looking for daily "moments" from God, that I can write about. Lord, give me those thoughts.

Unbroken by Laura Hilldenbrand

Difficult read. Story of Louie Zamperini, almost Olympian, who was drafted into the army for World War II. The main gist of the story was that he had an infectious joy for living and an indomitable spirit that never quit. He faced so many unimaginable sufferings as he not only went down with a plane and lived over 40 days on a raft in the middle of the Pacific with 2 others, but also endured all of the atrocities of Japanese POW camps. So intense, I was happy for the end; Loved that the author included all of the PTS that Louie was suffering and the amazing "healing" (alcoholism/ rages/ broken marriage/ chronic nightmares)that he experienced after giving his life to the Lord at a Billy Graham revival. Immediately, he never wanted another drink nor had another nightmare. How God bestows miracles in the most awful circumstances-- Praise Him.

February Snow

While enjoying a walk through our neighborhood in the umpteenth blizzard of the year, I looked up from my plodding and "safe" baby steps in the unplowed street --and saw God! As Psalm 29 reminded me in my reading that morning, "God sits ENTHRONED over the flood" (of snow!) just as He sits enthroned over the drought in CA or the ice in GA. God is in the mounds, the unrelenting winds of white, the pristine pureness, the clogged roads that impatient humans want to conquer. The activities that seemed important fade as we sit by the fire, we gaze out the window into the vast whiteness, we bake, we take slow walks going nowhere, and our hearts and souls rest from the ever frenetic pace that is our life. God is in the snow --He calls us to sit & listen, to reflect on our lives, to hear for the next steps that He is directing. Thankful.