Wednesday, September 24, 2014

Dust to Flesh by R. L. Stoll

I heard about this book in the local paper because it was written by a young author in the Plainwell area. Unfortunately, I did not enjoy it. Awkward dialogue, kind of a sci-fi them and I plowed through because of my determination to finish it. She has targeted juvenile youth so perhaps she might get an audience in her future books in this series---but not from me.

Saturday, September 6, 2014

Bound South by Susan Rebecca White

Interesting, but difficult, read from the perspectives of three Southern females, mostly the story of Louise - the "proper" Atlanta wife and mother. As I usually feel, too much course language--always wondering why it is needed; aren't there other words to express the feelings and anger? My biggest takeaway was that every family walks through journeys that are unexpected: rebellious teenagers, marriage discontent, in-law issues, dysfunctional pasts, friends who divorce, unwed pregnancies……. Louise attempts to walk in the best way she can, with candor. I never really knew what the author was presenting spiritually; she covered the gamut of religions with some sarcasm thrown in, but in the end -- inclusiveness prevails in the final scene; a young Jewish man, an Episcopalian mom, a Presbyterian dad, two gay men and a daughter who finds God in serving the homeless at a Catholic mission. I think the author wanted to bring the issues out in the open rather than carry on the myth in the South (and many other places), that appearances matter more than real relationships.

Tuesday, September 2, 2014

The Irresistible Blueberry Bakeshop & Cafe by Mary Simses

FUN! Perfect read over a rainy Labor Day weekend! Love story triangle -- Ellen leaves Manhatten to discover more about her recently deceased grandmother and falls in love with small town, good looking Roy. Problem: she has a wedding planned in 3 months to her high powered lawyer/politician fiancé. It made me appreciate the small town we live in, the desires for "smaller", simpler goals in life rather than money, success and power. I also loved that Ellen finally realizes that all of her original goals were really her mother's ideas of what she should "look like". Ellen's trip to Beacon was a gift from her grandmother, encouraging Ellen to re-think what was most important: photography and blueberry muffins, and family legacies.

Taylor's Gift by Todd & Tara Storch

The Storch's daughter, 13 year old Taylor, dies in a Colorado hospital after fatal injuries in a skiing accident. This is the heartfelt and triumphant story of a family who turned their deep grief into a cause -- organ donation. Most gripping were the stories of the different individuals who benefited from Taylor's organs, the ongoing support of Christian friends and family when Tara fell into depression, the amazing miracles that led Todd to leave his job to start the Foundation and the honest revelations of parents who handled grief in totally different ways. This story challenged me to face the many positives involved in organ donation--and to determine to make my decision on this very important issue.

The Invention of Wings by Sue Monk Kidd

An enjoyable read, as the Civil War/ Slavery era intrigues me. Kidd introduces her theme of women's abolition with a Charleston slave-owning family; with some daughters who identify deeply with the plight of their slaves. Both Sarah and Angelina at young ages, witness punishments to their slaves by an overbearing, cruel mother--who had been taught that she needed to exert great authority, short on mercy or compassion. The chapters are presented by Sarah, then Handful, her personal maidservant; each voicing her own hidden angers and fears and dreams that were planted in each at young ages. Some criticisms by reviewers felt that the story did not present enough conflict between Sarah and Handful; that they did not reach a full "sisterhood" of understanding or shared angst. But it was understandable to me that the full trust factor was not there- too much tension from hurtful experiences in Handful's past. I loved that this story was based loosely on a true historical character, Sarah Grimke, a Quaker women's right crusader. I find it amazing that she boldly went against her parents and Southern roots to fight valiantly for what she believed. It once again makes me wonder what I would be passionate about--standing against evil, instead of shrugging my shoulders and shaking my head over injustice and current moral issues.

Wednesday, July 16, 2014

Halftime by Bob Buford

Reading this for a Miller Energy book review, it was pertinent to my work and personal life. Bob relates his first "half", living for his job and being successful; but steps back to re-evaluate in his mid-life and realizes he needs to write out what he wants for his second "half". Right now, we have concluded that first half: the pastoring of various churches and the ministering, teaching, leading, "controlling", initiating, creating, event planning--all done to carry on the work God had called us to do. Now, into our second half, we are listening and evaluating what our gifts are, what energizes us and what significance/purpose God has for us in this new place called semi-retirement. We want to enjoy our days, but desire to contribute and make the most of what earthly days we have left. Will it be to love on our grandkids, to assist our adult children, to help others with "projects", to start a small business, to share our home with airbnb guests? Or does it need to look like a Kingdom project/purpose with other para-church groups? We want to serve and love, and give God the Glory. We are excited to see what that looks like!

Saturday, June 7, 2014

A June Day

Companionship -- a word I like and use often in reference to the "growing old together" love story of Bill and I. Today was that kind of day. Finishing one another's sentences, completing the task that the other started, picking the weeds together, one bringing up a topic that the other was just thinking about… and ending the day sitting together in the swing as we listen to the water in the pond and the crickets, and watching the blurry sliver of a moon rise to take its place in the dark sky. Are these types of days what God has in mind for us -- a companionship with Him that is easy, enjoyable, somewhat serene, rhythmic, and fulfilling? I hope so.

Longbourn by Jo Baker

Written by an English author, set in the 1800's, the "extended" story of what went on downstairs in the Bennet home rather than Jane Austen's perspective of the "chief players", who lived upstairs. Touted as Downton Abbey meets Pride and Prejudice, this was a good read. I loved the author's clever way of presenting a portion of the story, then on the next page - in an obscure way, she relates "the rest of the story". She made me smile with some of these "bomb droppers"--and I would have to go back and re-read her first presentation to make sure I was clear on what she had really said. A very clever way with her words. I also loved when she went took a section of the book to return to the past so we could fully understand the characters' stories. Sarah's perspectives of the unimportance of what her mistresses deemed important, was challenging to me. She walked in London, holding packages and watching the money being spent -- and mused about what peculiar creatures the upscale families were, to spend their time and money in picking out new curtains, pillows, decor, dresses --what did it really matter anyway? To be so burdened by continual work, then to be able to briefly enjoy minutes in the fresh air, or time in the kitchen with friends --and not be caught up in "wanting more"; but in knowing that to be loved made the biggest difference of all.

The Street Lawyer by John Grisham

First time read of this very prolific author! Loved the concept of a big time money making attorney switching up and using his gifts to assist the homeless. God can use non-believers to challenge believers in "seeing the least of these". Interesting, educational, inspiring.

Monday, May 12, 2014

The Shoemaker's Wife by Adriana Trigiani

Ciro and Enza's love story, from the mountains of Northern Italy, to the streets of Manhattan--and then to the cold winters of Minnesota. A satisfying story of life, love and loss. Enjoyed the descriptions of the Metropolitan Opera in NYC as well as the early convent life where Ciro was raised by loving nuns. A bereft and lonely young boy who works hard to make his way after being "knocked down" - it's the kind of hard luck story that resonates with me. One of my favorite chapters was when Ciro returns to sweep Enza off her feet and away from her wedding ceremony -- and she sacrificially gives up her dream position in NYC to make a life with this man that she has had on her heart since she was a teenager. How many kids in today's culture would follow their man, and give up their passion? Only one who was secure enough in themselves to realize that the accolades of men and position mean nothing -- joy in life comes from listening to the still voice within.